So this morning we had success! I changed my daily routine list a little bit. I mean the items on it didn’t change, but me adding time periods to it did. I usually make a list that looks like the following:
4:45 up – get coffee and breakfast started
5:00 unload and load dishwasher – fluff dryer
5:15 news- blog – coffee
5:45 shower – get ready
6:15 wake girls – get girls ready
6:55 – out the door
I make a time frame for each project to be done – and it puts my OCD in overdrive when I screw this up. I decided to experiment a little and just make a list of things to accomplish and goal times. My daily routine list looked more like this today:
Coffee and Breakfast
Dishwasher – Laundry
Blog – Enjoy Coffee and News
Get girls up and ready
6:55 goal time to be out the door loading the car.
Success happened for us today! It was such a smoother morning – I was happy! I think I have found that if I don’t make a strict list – I don’t feel so much pressure to get it all in and done. It would cause me to feel like a failure for not getting everything right (based on my timetable). With the new format I can make it all fit and if I am not feeling it, or we have no bread to make breakfast sandwiches, or no laundry to fluff – I can linger longer on other tasks and not feel bad!
Isn’t it funny how little things can affect us in such a large way? I am going to try to do this with a few other aspects of my life and see how well it works!